Do You Want to Know What Romance Is About?
I have a question for you.
What is romance?
I’m not thinking of the groundbreaking art style.
I wanted to take an old-fashioned encyclopedia in my hand to have a reference when I realized that the volume ‘R’ is missing. Just like romance is missing from many of our lives.
But there are moments when we realize that the pervasive love that makes a chocolate bar more than the money we spent on it is missing from our lives.
So what is romance?
In my opinion, it is nothing more but a soul that honestly expresses their liking / affection/ love for another soul. I deliberately did not write “person”.
Sometimes we play games. If you give me your love, I will give you a little. As much as you give, I open up and reveal to you of myself. We conceal our most intimate, deepest feelings and become tough, or even fragile. Or that’s what we show to the world.
Meanwhile, we desire others to behave with us according to what is in our hearts. In most cases, the other party does not come to know what it is, and the trouble begins. Shall I say the game is on?!
Romance in our case means more of the romantic behavior that is the contrary to the above-mentioned games. It is true openness and sincerity. Pure emotions. It’s our discretion of being attracted to another being. Revealing all this without knowing what we can get in return. A smile, a yes or a rejection…
Most people don’t take the risk. Many don’t even dare reveal their feelings when they have a well-established relationship.
But why don’t we care about the possible positive outcomes, like making someone’s day simply admitting we like them? Why do you forget about the option you might actually get surprisingly positive feedback and they would say yes to whatever your question was. Many of us fear rejection so much, that they won’t even try.
We must change it urgently!
Ladies and Gentlemen, Girls and Boys,
Give everything you have and don’t fear to live. Reach out for your dreams, don’t just dream it.
After all, rejection is much better than regret or What-ifs…
If you want to get a taste of my style, download “Before I Met Her” as my romantic soul’s gift to you.
I hope you will enjoy it and you will share your thoughts with me about it. Have fun!
